Tugboats

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"At some point, even the best of us need help. Knowing when to ask for help and understanding why you need it is ultimately the most important thing."- Krista Rizzo | Why Asking for Help is a Strength

Imagine with me for a moment, you are stranded on open waters and your phone is about to die with very weak signal reception and you can only make a call or two. Who would be that one individual or two whom you could confide in, to come to your aid?

If you're from the Northwest, there is a good chance you've driven on I-84. It's the interstate that helps you get to Oregon's most popular site seeing attractions like, Multnomah Falls, the Bridge of the Gods, the Vista House, and The Dalles Dam. This interstate also runs along the Oregon side of the Columbia River, which is known as the largest river in the Pacific Northwest Region of North America. This is the route that my wife and I always take when we are on our way to visit with family in the Yakima valley in WA. Not only does this trip come with beautiful site seeing of trees, mountains, rocks and waterfalls, but from time-to-time, we also get to see small tugboats pushing large containers going up and down the Columbia River. I was so intrigued by these little boats, I just had to learn more about them. What is a tugboat and what kind of purpose do they serve? Well, according to Wikipedia, "a tugboat or towboat is a type of vessel that maneuvers other vessels by pushing them or pulling them either by direct contact or by means of a tow line. Tugs typically move vessels that either are restricted in their ability to maneuver on their own, such as ships in a crowded harbor or a narrow canal, or those that cannot move by themselves, such as barges, disabled ships, log rafts, or oil platforms. Tugboats are powerful for their size and strongly built, and some are ocean-going. Some tugboats serve as icebreakers or salvage boats. Many tugboats have firefighting monitors, allowing them to assist in firefighting, especially in harbors." (watch a Tugboat in action: v1, v2 v3, v4, v5)

"With such diversified functions, tugboats are undoubtfully among the most far-reaching sailing helpers in the seaports world." - Netwave 

Wow! These tugboats are not just your everyday kind of boat and don’t let their size fool you either. These watercrafts may be visually small, but in reality they are designed and built to perform in a variety of ways for a greater purpose. It's no wonder why you see so many of them traveling back and forth on the Columbia River. I would also like to point out here, that tugboats are not so much known for their fancy looking design, for their super fast speeds, or for their bigness, but instead, are known more for their reliability, their endurance, their strength, and for their maneuvering capabilities due to their size. The more I thought about what makes a tugboat unique from all the rest of the boats, I couldn't help but think of individuals in my life who have come alongside me when I have found myself in a rut, lost, in danger, or in need of guidance and direction. It was because of their availability, genuine concern, leadership, pastoral care, prayers, and encouragement that made all of the difference for me as a husband, a Christian, a leader, and as a musician. Even still today, their very presence gives me hope, peace, joy, strength, and confidence. As I look back over the last couple of years, the following are ways in which these tugboats have impacted my life, my ministry, and career.

• In seasons of doubt, struggle and pain, they were present, supportive, and understanding.
• When I didn't have the strength in me, they went out of their way to make a way for me.
• When brokenness was all I could see and know, they showed compassion and carried me.
• When harmful obstacles surrounded my life, they took it upon themselves to protect me.
• When I could not understand why things were the way they were, their perspective on life gave me hope.
• When my values and beliefs were being compromised, they helped me stay true to myself and to God.
• When I could not be honest with myself, they asked me the tough and honest questions.
• When I was out of control, they cared enough to confront me and provide me the help I needed.
• When no one else believed in me, they took the time to help me believe in myself.
• When disappointment was all I delivered, they showed me mercy, love and grace.
• and when I needed clarity for what was next in my life, they came alongside me to help me discern and know God's voice and calling for my life.

“There is a tremendous strength that is growing in the world through sharing together, praying together, suffering together, and working together.” - Mother Teresa

Who are Your Tugboats?

How about you? Who are these individuals in your life whom you would consider as tugboats? And what kind of impact have they had on your life, your ministry or your career? For some of us, it can be our spouse, that one family member, that one friend, that one pastor, that one teacher, that one co-worker, that one support group, that chapter in that one book, that one podcast, God, or at times have come in the form of a life-changing experience. Having people in our lives whom we can be forthcoming with and can confide in, is an important thing to experience and have in our lives, because we were never meant to do life alone. So, the next time you are on I-84 and happen to spot a tugboat on the Columbia River, I hope you are encouraged as you remember those who have and continue to make a positive impact on your life. And if for some reason, you happen to find yourself in a rut; lost, in danger, or in need of guidance and direction, be encouraged in knowing that tugboats are nearby and ready to help.

Everyone, no matter how big and strong, could use a little help sometimes. Never be afraid to ask for help when you need it. What are we here for, if not for each other." - unknown

Take-Aways

• Who are the Tugboats in my life?
• What important qualities should Tugboats possess?
• Who are the individuals whom you can confide in to be there for you?
• Who are those who have already made themselves available to you?
• Who are the individuals who need to know that you are there for them?
• Am I someone who others can confide in?
• who are the unhealthy and unreliable people you cannot confide in and what does that mean moving forward?
• What should it look like to live in a healthy community with one-another and how can I be a part of creating that kind of culture around me and for others?

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Author

Martin is a husband, worship leader, and a career, ministry, and life coach from the Pacific Northwest. He enjoys living life to the fullest and encouraging others along the way.